I am always asked about venues to have weddings. Sue, a listener, who is dealing with a second wedding, wants a small elegant place that will accommodate 30 people and money is not an issue. My choices Gramercy Tavern. 42 East 20 Street 212- 477-0777 has a lovely backroom. Blue Hill at 75 Washington Place 212- 539-1776, might allow you take over the entire restaurant or to use the enclosed garden room. I also suggest the fabulous Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County 212- 539-1776 where they can arrange music if you like. Chanterelle Restaurant 2 Harrison Street 212-966-6960 is elegant with divine food. Eleven Madison Park 11 Madison Ave 212- 889-0905, in Danny Meyer’s stable, is now a four star restaurant with private rooms upstairs. Daniel 60 East 65th Street212 288-0033 is expensive, but divine in every way and has private rooms.